If you’re around negative people all the time, eventually you’ll embrace their negative feelings and thoughts. Negative people attract negative environments, negative outcomes. This is very damaging, draining, unproductive, time consuming and a waste of opportunities. If you want to go places in life. Use your time wisely. Spend some years working on you. Perfecting your craft if you have one. Finding out about yourself. Investing in your interests and passions. It will benefit you massively. Always look at things on the bright side. The wise views the world through reason. The average views the world through experience. Remember that this life is a one off chance to fulfil and accomplish as much as you can. Believe in your struggle. Trust your story. If someone doesn’t see your vision. Keep it moving. Don’t listen to losers. Have faith that whatever is in your heart will prosper, will determine, will eventually put you where you need to be.
Success in life is not guaranteed but if one is consistently discipline, consistently working hard, consistently pushing their own weight, accomplishing small scale projects and ultimately believes in themselves. Success becomes guaranteed to follow. Lately I have just envisioned myself ”there”. And what it’s like to be ”there”. Finally Famous. My plan wasn’t even to be famous, my plan was to have a positive impact on the youth and to be a positive voice that they can look up too for direction. I feel like my life is about to change and there’s no going back. What is coming next is bigger than what has ever come before. I’m excited but anxious. New experiences. New environment. New people. I feel like this is the only freedom I have before I’m pushed out into the spotlight.
Most people are in a rat race, where they’re stuck in a life that consists of going to work, living off pay cheque after pay cheque, small means, to pay bills. The death trap cycle. I definitely don’t want to be involved in this so called ”rat race”. It’s draining. It’s not non progressive. It’s uninspiring. I have seen what it’s done to my parents. To generations and others. I’m doing all that I can now to live a life of freedom, purpose and pure happiness. My dreams and goals are reachable, realistic and achievable. I want to do more than publish books. I want to create something that gives a person identity, a sense of belonging and enables them to tap into their innate potential. It’s a chance for them to be themselves but ultimately find what they’re great at. I want to be able to create that, something valuable & powerful. One thing I have realised about life is that if you surround yourself around people who dream big, you’ll eventually adapt their habits, embrace their energy, feed off their truths. I have been surrounding myself with inspirational, energetic and positive people for the last four years. I can honestly say, my life has changed, my mentality is different and I have big plans in the works.
People fear the opening of something beautiful. Too lazy to try and give it a go. Hearts packed with feelings, tongues concealed, minds in two places. People don’t want to be free, this generation. Love. All messed up. It’s crazy. Two people can have mad feelings for one another but never pursue the beauty of being together. Everyone’s so wrapped up with insecurities. Trust issues. Major issues. Who really misses out? Some walk around guarded from head to tie. Life isn’t even supposed to be this way.
A friend is someone you can pour all your fears, secrets, goals and heart too. A friend is someone who doesn’t judge your story but accepts you the way you’re. A friend is someone who will sit with you until the early hours of the morning discussing topics that are of relevance. A friend is someone who’s down to roll and go on adventures with you. A friend is someone who notifies you if something important is troubling them and it affects you. A friend, these days is soo rare. The term doesn’t even fit many. A friend is someone who understands you to a certain extent and supports your growth. A good friend is what i learnt & realised i had to be before i could demand one.
I know a man who lost his parents but refused to be called an orphan. He was man enough to love a strong woman years older than him. Worked for her and made her stronger, opened his heart to her, shared his fears to no one but her. He was faithful to her till her last breath. Cleaned after himself and sewed his own clothes. He was good looking, courageous and fearless. He never judged anyone on their pasts or looks and was moderate, open minded and tolerant. His neighbour was Jewish and his cousin in law was a Christian priest. Beaten and exiled when he was helpless, he was merciful when he became stronger. Intelligent, wise and a hard worker. He built a long lasting nation out of nothing in the last 20 years of his life. He had no parents, but loved his daughters and grandchildren. His last will was ‘’Be good to women’’. This man was a mercy for all mankind, this is my Prophet Muhammad (pbuh).